Enter: Day of the blind date.
If you know me well, you know that I am always on time. When I say "on time," I mean a few minutes early. I can't help it. Needless to say, I tried really hard to be a few minutes late to The Natural Cafe because I wanted him to be there first. I didn't know who he was or what he looked like so I figured that if I was a bit on the later side of 11:45am, I'd see a man standing solo and know that it was Jared.
Well, of course, I'm driving (insert: safe speeding) to The Natural Cafe talking to myself and kind of freaking out with nervousness when I realize that I am going to be early. True to my nature, I pulled into the parking lot at 11:43. Oops. Now I became the one standing solo waiting for an unknown man to walk through the door.
To give credit to Jared, he, too, is a timely person. He just knows how to be "on time" and not early. He arrived at 11:45 on the dot.
We met, exchanged hugs, ordered our food (he paid - bonus points!), found a table, and started talking...and we didn't stop talking for 2 hours. We both didn't really touch our food. Blame the nerves and the constant conversation.
It was the best blind date (and only blind date) I've ever been on.
Of course, the only awkward part of this first meeting was our goodbye. We both didn't quite know what to say! I didn't want to initiate a second date because I felt that it was his job if he enjoyed the time with me. He didn't want to seem too eager...so we both said something along the lines of "I'll see you around." Interesting.
Luckily, we'd talked about hiking during lunch and, since he was such a nice guy and easy to talk to, I decided that I would risk it and ask him to hike with me on my day off. I jumped the gun, texted him a hiking invitation, and he accepted. He was going to ask me on a second date but didn't want to do it on the same day as our first date. He had plans to call on Saturday, but seeing as I texted him on Friday night proposing a Monday hike, I beat him to it. Points for me?
Monday's hike to Tangerine Falls came and went.
A formal date to Trattoria Vittoria on the following Friday again went smoothly as we talked the night away.
We made a date night to the Banff Film Festival.
He met my family at the bowling alley...
and pretty soon we were "officially" dating.
I had myself a boyfriend. A real, genuine, loving, wonderful boyfriend.
Our first picture together - March 2012





